Warmth, Intelligence & Presence
I'm top (95%)/versatile (5%) and kink-friendly.
Available For
Services
Travel Companion
Travel isn't easy for everyone. Maybe it makes you anxious, maybe a past trip didn't go the way it should have, or maybe the people you traveled with made it harder than it needed to be. If the thought of going somewhere still brings up a lot, you're not alone, and I'd love to help you find the ease in it again.
I'm happy to travel with you, always at your pace. I've been to more than 40 countries, so I know how much a little planning helps, and I'm glad to take care of the details with you: where to go, when to go, where to stay, how to get around, and an itinerary with plenty of rest and a plan B for when things change. I'm not a counselor, just a warm, patient companion who wants you to feel safe and to enjoy it.
Fetish & BDSM
I'm kink-friendly, and I take the craft seriously. Good kink is built on clear conversation: what you want, what's off the table, how we'll signal each other, and how we'll look after each other afterward. Whether you're curious and just starting out or you know exactly what you like, we'll talk it through first and go at a pace that works for you.
Coaching
I'm also a coach, and I work with people through Joshua New Coaching LLC. A dedicated coaching website is on its way, and this section will link to it once it's ready.
"I believe the most intimate thing two people can share is genuine presence — the kind that makes the rest of the world go quiet."
I'm Joshnineplus. I'm 45, based in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, and I meet clients all over the United States and the world. I came to sex work not by accident but by intention — after years of exploring my own sexuality and identity, I found that many encounters with others, especially for gay men, are very performative, so I sought out to help others have more connected, intimate experiences. I accomplish that by facilitating those pleasurable experiences for others. This work is deeply fulfilling for me.
I'm an easy-going, down-to-earth, everyday guy who's easy to talk to, though don't let that fool you. I'm into all kinds of body types and personalities, and I'm genuinely curious about people: your story, your desires, your edges. Every encounter is different, and I enjoy that immensely. My background in psychology and embodied movement means I bring more than just physical presence to our time together. I'm told I have a wry sense of humor and I'm rarely short of conversation when the moment asks for it. I take the time to be fully present; I'm not the type to watch the clock.
Don't let my "innocent looking" face fool you. I can go from soft and easy to hard and fast, exactly at the right moments. This white horse is not a one-trick pony. For me, good sex is all about feeling out the other person and having a mutual good time.
My work is grounded in real training. I'm an expert in sex and sexuality, and I've been trained by the Kinsey Institute, one of the world's leading centers for research on human sexuality. That means I understand how desire, arousal, and intimacy actually work, and I can help you explore them without judgment, shame, or guesswork. Whether you're curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, you're in knowledgeable hands. You'll find some of what I've learned in my Tips & Tricks guides.
